Ariff Alfian Rosli's gay marriage in Dublin is a hot headline since yesterday when he married a guy name Jonathan in Dublin.
What make Malaysian angry is he humiliated Malaysia, and some are saying that he don't deserve to be call a Muslim or Malay. We shared with you some info and photo of Ariff Alfian.
Based on googling, Ariff Alfian is an excellent SPM student in 2001 from SMK seksyen 5 wangsa maju studied medicine at University College Dublin, Ireland under Petronas sponsorship 2003. However, Petronas sponsored has stop their sponsorship due to the high cost.
This gay marriage received a big support from bigayweddingproject.com where you can find plenty of the gay wedding photo.
Photo of Ariff Alfian Gay Marriage :
In the photos – taken at Dublin City Hall – Ariff is seen wearing a black baju Melayu with kain samping with headgear embroidered with gold thread, while his spouse is in a tuxedo with a green tie.
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im a 18 year old student and i am straight. from my opinion, i dont think being gay is wrong. cant Malaysia be more open minded about this? what you wrote is a humiliation towards our education. why can others accept the fact that he is gay and we cant? being a gay, lesbian, bisexual is not wrong. we cant change who we are. love is love. i dont think Ariff is an humiliation towards Malaysia. so what if he is a straight A student and he's gay? what is your point about that? then how about elton john? one of the most famous pianist and he is gay. what about Ellen Degeneres? greatest comedian and she likes girls. what's the point that you are trying to proof? it puts me to shame that Malaysia cant accept the issue GLBT. love is love. you cant change anything about it. that is one of the reasons why Ariff would rather hold his marriage at Dublin rather than in his own country and with his family. think about this before writing something not worthy and humiliate us Malaysians. and you are wrong, i am not angry about the fact that he is gay and got married to a man. plus, your sentence structure "what make Malaysian angry is he humilated Malaysia" is utterly wrong. thank you for letting me voice out. this is purely an opinion. no offence to the others. thanks
budak nie dah sesat jauh, murtad sudah menjadi biasa, case gay nie mungkin bukan pertama, tapi cukup untuk mengejutkan kita semua.
kepada ibu bapa, berhati2 sekiranya anak2 anda belajar di luar negara…..
Arif Alfian Rosli, bekas pelajar Malaysia jurusan perubatan di Ireland enggan mengulas berita yang dia telah melangsungkan perkahwinan dengan seorang lelaki warga asing.
Arif Alfian yang dihubungi media Ireland, IrishTimes.com, menegaskan bahawa dia masih lagi seorang penganut agama Islam, tidak memeluk mana-mana agama lain dan kekal sebagai seorang muslim sehingga ke akhir hayatnya.
“Saya tidak memeluk agama lain, apa yang dilaporkan sangat bertentangan dengan hakikat sebenar. Saya dilahirkan sebagai Muslim, saya masih seorang Muslim dan akan kekal Muslim sehingga saya meninggal dunia. Tiada apa yang mampu menggoncang keimanan saya,” katanya kepada media tersebut hari ini.
Arif Alfian juga menjelaskan bahawa dia sudah beberapa tahun tidak menghubungi ibubapanya di Malaysia ekoran satu perselisihan faham antara mereka, namun mengaku kerap menghubungi adik beradiknya yang lain.
“Saya ada sedikit salah faham dengan ayah saya pada tahun 2009…sehingga saya dilaporkan hilang, saya masih tidak berhubung dengannya, tapi saya sering berhubung dengan anggota keluarga yang lain,” katanya lagi.
Bapa Arif Alfian, Rosli Harun, 56, baru-baru ini memohon pertolongan dari akhbar Utusan Malaysia untuk mencari anaknya yang dikatakan ‘hilang’ setelah pencariannya menemui jalan buntu.
Memburukkan lagi keadaan, anaknya juga dikatakan telah berkahwin dengan seorang lelaki warga asing dan beberapa keping gambar serta video perkahwinan songsang itu turut tersebar di internet, termasuk salah satunya di lama web bigayweddingproject.com.
Majlis perkahwinan sejenis itu dipercayai berlangsung dalam sebuah gereja di luar negara dan Arif Alfian digambarkan memakai baju Melayu berwarna hitam, lengkap bersamping serta tanjak berwarna emas.
Pasangannya yang dianggarkan berusia lewat 30-an pula mengenakan busana sut lengkap warna hitam yang biasanya dipakai ketika majlis perkahwinan masyarakat Barat. Arif Alfian ketika dihubungi media Ireland turut menafikan dakwaan dirinya ‘hilang’ dan menegaskan dia kini telah bermigrasi di Ireland secara sah.
“Saya tak hilang. Pihak berkuasa Ireland tahu saya tinggal secara sah di negara ini (Ireland). Kedutaan Malaysia juga tahu dan sedar mengenai saya yang tinggal secara sah di sini,” katanya lagi.
Selain itu, Arif Alfian juga menjelaskan bahawa dia secara tidak sengaja menarik perhatian masyarakat umum dan tidak mahu mencetus kontroversi atau masalah, khususnya terhadap keluarganya di Malaysia.
Please be corrected. The venue of the ceremony was held at Dublin City Hall and not at a chapel as rumoured.
http://www.dublincity.ie/dublincityhall/
dear amanda….it is wrong for us, Malaysian, to accept those peoples that are gay, lesbian or wtv…..because as you know, Malaysia is one of the Islam country…..and as a matter of fact, Ariff is a muslim, and it is such an abhor things for him to do as a muslim….thats why he is HUMILIATING our country…
Thanks… Lim
I am more pissed at how irresponsible this man is. The family is clueless about his whereabouts for 3 years and then leaving them with the burden of his loan for his unfinished education is just too much. So irresponsible and so shallow. I am a Malay and I have a foreigner as a partner waiting for me in the US but I would never abandon my family like this let alone burden them with my loans. What a shame.
Well said, Amanda. It may be a biological factor or a sense that he has developed over time. No matter what, it makes the fact that he dare stand up to what he feel is right. He made the right move by having the wedding in Dublin instead of Malaysia, as i don't think it will be any close to being possible to have it in Malaysia. I don't think he humiliated anyone. It might be that the religion he embraces has no clause on gay marriages. But by heart he believes in God the way he was taught to as a kid. And that for a matter of fact, made him a true Muslim.
When western values change what our (Muslim) principles are, are you saying we should just keep quite? I am surprised by how Amanda perceive things. With no offense Amanda, I have to say that the reason why LGBT seem so right is because a group of people won the World War II. Should India was involved and Ghandi won it, we would all be wearing kurta and punjabi suits to office and curry would be perceived something like black pepper. It's hegemony my dear, and the Western supremacy that we all are subjecting ourselves too. But never mind that. Let's assume what I learned in my International Relation textbook written by a white guy is wrong. Ariff Alfian should never say he is a Muslim, because his actions are breaking his tie with his 'Aqidah' (taken from the arabic word 'aqad', which means tie to our God, Allah, is one true God). Aqidah is not like Faith (Iman, or belief), it is not shaken like faith but rather broken. Once a Muslim's aqidah is broken, he is no longer a Muslim and in order to return he must stop what is against the religion and recite the holy decree again (known as 'Syahadah', or statements of bearing witness). Being gay or lesbian is wrong my dear, for many reasons. It transcends beyond religious reasoning and cultural norms – it involves what's harmful for human body, it interferes with population dynamism, it changes laws that are not to be changed unnecessarily (talking about gay adoption), it confuses a young child of the idea of a parent, which as absolute in two conditions – having a real female and male parent, or a female or male parent who adopted you. It changes the destiny of this child and I can go on and on and on… I hope dear Amanda, I made some sense at least to you. Not only I like your name, but I like the politeness in your comments, therefore I reciprocate you with the same kind of comment. May all of us be blessed by Allah for standing for truth.
Reading the comments on this article has confirmed a few things for me:
1. I'm fortunate to have escaped the narrow-minded society that is Malaysia
2. People who have not walked a mile in the shoes of gay individuals, gay couples, gay families, children of gay parents should not presume to define what is right or wrong, damaging or nurturing about these individuals
I am heartened to see that people like Amanda, though a small minority, are voicing their views in support of LGBT folk.
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Mohon Kementerian sebagai org islam
Tahan dan siasat budak ini atas 2 sebab utama apabila balik Malaysia :-
i).Lacurkan Bangsa Melayu Dengan Memperbodohkan Org Melayu Kepada Dunia.
ii) Demi kesucian agama islam.Kita negara islam .Jgn Dayus bertindak utk budak biadap ini.Jika tidak Allah SWT akan laknat kita sebagai pemimpin.
These events show that we are living in the last days!
I don't think we need to judge this young man for who he is. No straight person will ever understand the massive, painful internal turmoil that a gay person has to go through, born to love or care deeply for another person of a similar gender. Nonetheless, knowing the perception and attitude that Malaysians generally have towards gay issues and unions, he should have practised discretion and wisdom before allowing his marriage to be posted for the whole world to see. Even if he had wanted to come out of the closet, he should, being brought up a malay and muslim, have thought of his family and the shame that would have brought them should he had done so. He is in Ireland, far away from a possible social or physical abuse that his family may be going through right now in Malaysia. His pain now is no longer being born a gay, but more for causing untold shock and grief towards his family and in that for himself for not practising wisdom when wisdom and humility are crucial for a bit of happiness in this life. God doesn't judge for who you are but every action one does counts. Better make amends Alfian……
Kita ni org islam .. dah laa riff balek laa pda yg satu ( al – quran dan al sunnah ) . xguna kalau straight A , belajar jauh2 , masuk neraka . Memang kalau kita kawin antara laki n perempuan blum tentu masuk syurga .. tp kalau kawin laki n laki comfirm masuk neraka laa . Bertaubat laa sebelum terlambat . Pintu taubat Allah tuh seluas langit dan bumi
tidak mengapa klau dia nk jdi gay ke,ape ke,jnji JNGAN MLU NEGARA,BANGSA,AGAMA dan Keluarga, nanti org kafir ingat apa terhadap Islam???
Janganlaa jdi pengikut kaum Nabi Luth !
xsenonoh betul..mmg da nk kiamat dunia ni…eii laknat lah gay ni..stupid
Dear Amanda,
Is not about being open-minded or not. Its a religion issue, something that you can't take it easy. Islam prohibits those act. In fact, every religion condemned the act of being gay/lesbian. Surprisingly, people call it a "human right" to choose to live in that way. The main issue is Arif is a Muslim and we do care about it. I pray to God that he'll realize what he is doing now is sinful and return to the right path. Only Allah will let that happen and guide him to the truth. We never hate him as who he is, but we hate for what he did. May Allah forgive him.
Dear Ariff Alfian Rosli,
If you came across this page, and have the courage to read them, PLEASE READ THIS. We never blame you Ariff. There must be thousand of reasons why you decided to choose this kind of life. But, please…Muhasabah, muhasabah, muhasabah. I know you understand this word quite well.. Remember who you are Ariff. Remember 'where' do you come from. Remember the saying " To Allah we belong and to Him we should return".
Nobody is perfect in this world. Human make mistakes, but there's always chance for us to make it right.